The Ellen MacArthur Cancer Trust takes young people aged between 8-24 sailing to help them regain their confidence, on their way to recovery from cancer. For more information please visit... www.ellenmacarthurcancertrust.org
28 January 2013
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The Ellen MacArthur Cancer Trust is a national organisation that gives young people between the ages of 8-24 who have suffered from cancer the opportunity to take part in the new and fantastic experience of sailing.
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“Although it was a horrible time, we didn’t have any real dramas during Meyer’s treatment’ recalls mum Emma. “She was three years old when her legs stopped working. X-rays showed nothing wrong, and I was told to go home and try to make her walk! She couldn’t and was getting paler so we went back to hospital, and they took her bloods. This was when leukaemia was first mentioned for the first time. The next day, we were at Manchester Children’s Hospital for bone marrow tests.
Meyer was brilliant through her treatment, always smiling and I never let her see me scared or crying, so she wouldn’t be scared either. After two weeks in hospital, we were back twice a month, and every time she had temperature. She was on chemo for 113 weeks, mostly taken orally or by injection, and took part in a clinical study for a drug that probably wouldn’t help Meyer, but we hope might be helping kids now.
She was never as poorly as some of the other kids, but she never once complained, and even used to show the nurses which veins they should use. She lost her hair about six times, but the last time was the most upsetting, because she was back in school and the other kids were more aware of it. She used to be on her own in the playground a lot, because all the cliques had already been formed.
I’ve always been a single mum, and so I just got on with it all, but you’re almost in a bubble of hospitals and home the whole time. It was a different world where nothing else, jobs, school or whatever, was important. I would never say the word cancer or accept that anything bad would happen to Meyer. We waited five years for the doctors to say she was OK, and for everything to go back to normal again. It was only after it was all over that the severity hit me and I wondered what on earth had just happened to us. Meyer had been the only thing that mattered for so long, but suddenly everything else mattered again, and that was really difficult for me.
When Meyer went on the sailing trip I was petrified! It’s not something I would ever do, but I wouldn’t ever have been able to give Meyer that experience myself, so encouraged her to go and she absolutely loved it. Before the trip she couldn’t make a cup of tea, I didn’t even like her going in to the knife drawer, but when she came back, she’d been cooking and all sorts!
Meyer adds, “The best bit was the sailing, it’s difficult to sail at home and I don’t think I’d have ever had the chance to go on a yacht. I steered it, had a go at doing the winches but they were quite hard, and when I helped put the sail up water fell down on me. I helped make breakfast and dinner which everyone ate, and I had lots of fun, I’m excited to be going back this year.”
Emma finishes, “Her going on the trip made me realise she’s no longer the vulnerable little girl she once was, but is an independent and strong young lady. Thankfully she is now healthy and happy, and can be an inspiration to others, like she is to me, that there is life after treatment.”
Meyer will return to our new Waterpark Residential Dinghy Week in 2011.
Emma £10.00 (+ £2.50 giftaid)
22.08.14 Aww my little girl :)