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Mark Gower

Running The Ridgeway

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Target £0.00

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Raised offline: £0.00

My story

[p]There are statistics about domestic violence, but they don’t really convey the impact on people’s lives. I don’t have first-hand experience of sustained abuse, but I’ve loved and supported those who have - I’ve seen the mark it leaves on survivors. When a loved one can flash back years in a heartbeat and feel unsafe, even now, it’s clear how important it is to provide escape and safety. [/p][p]The Ridgeway is an 85 mile trail across hills and downland I remember fondly from my youth, which I told my Dad I was going to run someday. The 24th of July is the first anniversary of him dying and as I’ve reflected on his life, I remember he and I helping someone escape abuse some years ago - we provided a midnight getaway with just a few things you could carry loosely. It was fortunate that we could and no-one should rely on luck to get away from a violent partner.[/p][p]Lockdown exacerbated the suffering for many vulnerable people being abused in their own homes. At the same time, charities like Refuge have found it harder to raise funds and provide support for them. Your sponsorship can provide a safe space, an escape from circumstances no-one should face. This painful anniversary, for me, can be made much more meaningful. It can make a difference.[/p][p]Men suffer domestic abuse, just as women do. It can be harder to admit to and even to recognise. Many men have found that society doesn’t believe them as they describe their experience. ManKind Initiative provides emotional support and practical information to men who may have nowhere to turn. Mindful of coercive abuse I’ve known, I’m keen to support a helpline that is entirely funded by public donation.[/p][p]I’ll be completing the 85 miles on foot, self-supported and (I hope) in under 24 hours. This isn’t a thing that I know I can complete - I decided to do it after lockdown started, as I thought about what was happening in homes across the country. I’ve ran ultra-marathons before, but not nearly this far and on those runs I had an event framework to help me along. As it is for those I’m raising money in aid of, this will be a tough march into the unknown. [/p][p]Help me make a difference.[/p][p]Thank you.[/p]
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Event

Personal Challenge Date

24 Jul 2020

Supporters

Jul 29, 2020

mel

I have known MEN and women who have suffered abuse/ domestic violence, so well done for highlighting this and raising funds

£15.00 plus £3.75 Gift Aid

Jul 28, 2020

Anonymous

Jul 26, 2020

Louise

Well done Mark!

£30.00 plus £7.50 Gift Aid

Jul 26, 2020

Anita

A brilliant achievement. Well done.

£10.00

Jul 25, 2020

Helene

You've done so so well and I'm so so proud of you, I'm whacking on a bit of an extra donation!

£15.00 plus £3.75 Gift Aid

Jul 25, 2020

Pauline Jim

We are all very proud of you, what an achievement! Love from Pauline +Jim

£50.00 plus £12.50 Gift Aid

Jul 25, 2020

JONNA

Good work Mark!!

£20.00 plus £5.00 Gift Aid

Jul 24, 2020

Stacey

Thanks for doing this cous xxx good luck love you xx

£15.00 plus £3.75 Gift Aid

Jul 24, 2020

Love Mum and John xxx

Good luck son you will smash it with the Angel's wings of Dad and nana and grampy with xxx

£30.00 plus £7.50 Gift Aid

Jul 24, 2020

Em

Proud of you cous and so would nan and your dad be xxx

£20.95 plus £5.24 Gift Aid